tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29499647474102219922024-03-26T02:35:07.173-07:00A Slice of MindAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.comBlogger142125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-77003859900944875932018-09-30T12:39:00.000-07:002018-09-30T12:52:59.183-07:00WHY I LOVE PHILOSOPHY (and Not IDEOLOGY or RELIGION)<span style="font-size: large;"></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I guess the reason why I enjoy philosophy so much is that at its core, it has a deep concern for truth and knowledge. This discipline is focused on uncovering the way things actually are, the way the world <i>is.</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Philosophy makes the assumption that truth exists and it is accessible to our minds. It makes the assumption that truth is objective and universal to humans. And, since truth and reality exist-- by necessary extension-- there is such a thing as fiction, untruth, fallacy. Not everything can be true or real.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>If we live our lives according to what is real and true--what is reality--we can make better predictions about our own lives and about society at large.</strong> Our perceptions of events and how to respond to them will likely be more accurate.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Why would we not want the most accurate vision? Is it because we do not think it is accessible or because we think truth and reality are tainted by the limitations and discrepancies of our human mind? Or, are we afraid of the truth? Are we afraid that it could demolish some of our preferred fantasies...ideologies?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Science has a system in place... a methodology for finding truth about the world. No other system either in the past or the present has such remarkable reliability, consistency and predictive powers as the discipline of science.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Let's say you post an ad on your Craigslist Community section for a "Bible Study for people who believe in the God of the Bible".</strong> Since you're likely to be living in a diversely religious community, you may have a Catholic, Protestant, Jehovah's Witness and a Mormon attend. <strong>If you ask each of them "How to have eternal life in heaven" you will likely get several different (and contradictory) responses.</strong> Even major themes they derive from the Bible will get a different response from each of these members. You may all agree in the general idea that "God" and "Jesus" exist and that " He wants a relationship with you". However, once you decide to probe into more specific details about various texts and also about <i>which texts should be emphasized more (or less)</i> it becomes a crap shoot.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong> This is why you can't base a system of truth off of a--book/religious idea or theory where there is little consensus among the participants and even among the so-called experts.</strong> You know that the text is probably not the most reliable text at getting its message across if everyone is giving a slightly (or majorly) different account and emphasizing different verses. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Any text/idea/theory is useless if it cannot clearly communicate its message to a wide range of participants (and experts) within its field. <b>After all, communicating the message<i> is</i> the basic goal here.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Unlike religious texts, Scientists have come to some fairly startlingly strong agreements about various phenomena in nature. Even experts from other fields will readily agree with discoveries from other fields and will find ways to integrate this knowledge into their own field. <strong>That's because the thing discovered was </strong><i><strong>universally true.</strong></i><i> A truth discovered in science has an impact outside its domain.</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Science, of course, is comprised of groups of humans, both individually and collectively, who tune their minds to the acquisition of knowledge. They may decide one or two specific areas to research and add to the body of current knowledge that already exists. First though, these scientists are committed to an unbiased/impartial account of what they discover and should be open to being proven wrong.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We keep hearing that "Capitalism is imperfect--and can result in some major social inequities--but it's still the<i> best economic system that we have</i>, at least compared to the others." I tend to agree with this. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>In the same way, the system of science is still imperfect but it is the best we have for learning about our world and making predictions about things</strong>. Contrast this with ancient religious texts, revelation, personal accounts, hearing voices while praying, psychics, tarot cards and fortune cookies. These all have something to forecast--but how truthful are they? Do they say anything very specific so that we can test the predictive power they seem to claim? <b>Or, do they default to rough, blurry generalizations with vague projections so that we are merely tricked into thinking that they are true?</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Thankfully, in any marketplace there is a process of scrutiny and competition and analysis by competitors. </strong>In the marketplace of ideas there is also a process of scrutiny, analysis and competition by other scientists who are motivated to prove the other scientists wrong (or incomplete) or to snatch the discovery before the other scientist reaches it first.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Science has an inherent system of checks and balances precisely because science functions so very differently from religious ideology. This system of checks and balances is one of constant questioning, doubting and scrutiny that is undertaken in this process.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Anyone who has a high regard for truth will first and foremost have an accurate definition of the word<i> truth.</i> <strong>All </strong><strong><i>communication</i></strong><strong> between humans </strong><strong><i>begins</i></strong><strong> with language and having a shared understanding of the meanings of words. </strong>Words are specific sounds that represent things--both concrete, tangible things and abstract ideas.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Caring about truth starts out by caring about what is tangible and real, what is material and present. This is where science comes in, because it says things about the material, physical world.<b> Caring about truth means that you take what is discovered about the natural world<i> seriously.</i> </b>It also means that you will consider and study those topics which the human senses may not be privy to. You realize that there are instruments created by humans--by science--and you can trust that those instruments will give you accurate results about the physical world. Those instruments may be things like microscopes, telescopes, ultrasound... to name a few.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Anyone who cares about the acquisition of Truth recognizes, humbly, that there is still so much that they do not know.</strong> And, if such a person cannot claim with certainty that something exists--say, angels dancing on the head of a pin or whether or not the Greek God Zeus causes thunder and lightning, they will promptly say, "I don't know".</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When you say, "I don't know" this means that you do not have knowledge of something or some incident. Saying "I don't know" means that you are not privy to said things existence or being.<strong> Such thing (or incidence) could exist, perhaps outside your threshold of perception, but since you cannot perceive it either with your perception or with the aid of an instrument, you are most candid when you say "I don't know."</strong></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">To me, a steadfast decision to be a truth seeker is the best way I can comport my being in this life--because truth is the best guide. It is true that life is short, and truth is not always fun, nor does it always align with my ego or my aspirations as a human being. <strong><i>But...</i></strong><strong>it is the thing, above anything else, that must be taken into account because it will have the most impact on </strong><strong><i>my life</i></strong><strong> and on </strong><strong><i>my own welfare.</i></strong></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Agreed. It's probably self serving, evolutionarily advantageous and simply pragmatic that I seek truth. Thankfully, since this truth is universal and will affect everyone; my alliance to the truth will also be a benefit to others, since we are all enmeshed and affected by it in similar ways. In other words, the truth will impact me to a similar extent that it will impact others. My "self-serving concern for the truth", is an indirect form of caring for others.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="font-size: large;">One of the reasons I found myself coming towards philosophy and falling away from religion and religious views of "truth" was religion's appeal to emotion and its use of fear (again, an emotion). Religion instills a sense of fear for questioning, for doubting, for contemplation, for continual inquiry of new or different ideas.</span></strong><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Worse than its hellfire threats, religion imprisons your own mind from thinking---from hearing different voices, different perspectives. It is the embodiment of speech censorship.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Religion is like the<strong> angry mob of students trying to shut down a speaker--those who chant loudly so that others cannot hear the WORDS, the SPEECH, the IDEAS put forth by others because said speech is considered to be heretical. </strong></span><br />
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<strong><span style="font-size: large;">Religion shuts down other viewpoints because it "already has the right answer"--it has the final say--and other, competing ideas are simply "heresy".</span></strong><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Science knows quite a bit more than religion. It rarely boasts yet it has <i>dramatically</i> increased the human lifespan in recent centuries. <strong>Science is still humble enough to say, "This is what we know so far", let's hear your perspective too--and if you want to test out your ideas in this marketplace, feel free. There's no censorship to ideas of the mind here--you can think freely and speak freely here.</strong></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Sure science works. The proof is in it's products, the technologies it creates that we ALL can use. But also, science--this scientific community that we discuss--knows that what it has discovered is tentative and subject to adaptation, improvement and even (potentially) being overturned. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">That is the difference between science and dogma. Sure, both enterprises are made of fallible, limited humans--<b>but at least with science, we know that it knows its own fallibility. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Conversely, there is no way to "overturn" what is considered divinely inspired. It is just assumed to be true and that's it. The "sin" comes in the form of questioning this--by considering other explanations for why things are the way they are.</span><br />
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grandparents think, then it's likely that you have exhibited little curiosity,
little doubt, and little reflection upon these views. </span></span></span></div>
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Instead, you have probably generated an emotional commitment to these views.
That is, you find yourself aligning with the views of your parents and your
ancestors because they make you feel comfortable - they are what you have
always known. You just assume them to be true.</span></span></div>
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Perhaps you feel that having deeper curiosity for such views could stir up
doubt and might have some sort of negative consequence--so you remain motivated
by fear and intimidation and threats. So you stay within the lines, the rigid
demarcations of what you have always known and believed.</span></span></div>
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If you do not have a clearly objective perspective of your views, how can you
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expected to take on your views either?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Every day and every night before I dive into the underworld
of sleep, I find myself completing inconsequential tasks. I’m unloading the
dishwasher, folding laundry and chauffeuring it off to its designated drawers
or closets.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="margin: 0px;"> </span>I’m picking up toys,
and gadgets…and books. I’m wiping off cupboards and counters; and all of this
is being done after 10:30pm—when the children have finally gone to bed.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Instead of employing my intellect and
reading about fascinating topics or writing down my thoughts, my time is displaced
by constant, undervalued, invisible clean-up.</b> This is labor that imparts
not intellectual or academic value to my mind. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">There is almost no part of this that can be accessed and marketed at a
future time.</b> This is time not simply wasted—but time spent on wear and tear
on the human body. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Almost all my daily hours are displaced and taken over by
physical labor<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">. I am now fully convinced
that this is the reason women throughout the ages have made very few strides in
science, engineering and invention (compared to men).</b><span style="margin: 0px;"> </span>It is women who have been mothers throughout millennia.
And, being a mother means all of those moments that you could have used to
research a particular topic, invent something or become a prominent scientist,
were used—were displaced—by childcare and housework duties.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="margin: 0px;"> </span>If you give women more time, you’ll find that
they could manifest incredible results—because their drive for success,
education and influence is so strong.</b> Women are naturally ambitious
perfectionists and tend to be quite conscientious. They are extremely hard
working. Many are growing up to value their time and their acquisition of
knowledge. So many women want to act upon…within this world and make a
difference and many realize that the time to do this is short.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"><b>I keep hearing the phrase, “The Future is Female” </b>and I am frightful that this will likely be the case. As a group, we as women are pushing
forward at astounding speeds. Our ambition and courage is nearing its peak.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"><b>Around the globe, women are multi-tasking everywhere</b>… <b>to
untold degrees of madness. Were taking care of children while cleaning our
houses, juggling education and careers, pursuing creative business ventures and
dabbling with side hobbies to enrich our minds that give us even more skills. </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">I am not one of these women. I’m currently a full-time,
stay-at-home Mom. I’ve become very aware of what’s happening on a social scale
because I’ve found myself to be in the minority. I’ve been given a distinct
vantage point of what is going on in the general female population around the
globe. People always seem to be jarred with shock when I mention that I’m a
stay-at-home mom without a side business, career and not taking any online
college courses. Compared to most other women, I feel like a slacker. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"><b>And, this is where my lamentations come in for the phrase,
“The Future is Female”. Women are the new men.</b> The new group in society who
must bear the brunt of the hardship, family loyalty as well as work both
outside and inside the home—while the men are all off accomplishing the vast
amount of the leisure and entertainment and downtime.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"> </span>J<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"><b>ordan Peterson has said, “There is going to be a time when
women will have to work because men won’t.” </b>I have arrived at a recent theory
myself. My predictions about society are derived from all the observations I’ve
been accumulating over the past decade as I watch the interactions and associations
between the male and female gender in various societies—in cities literally all
over the world. </span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Certainly, the data
reveals that among the younger cohort in society, women are taking the lead in
terms of college education, degrees, entrepreneurial ventures and careers that make
a decent living. Even in mediocre or menial minimum wage jobs it appears that
younger women are equaling or even outnumbering younger men.</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">But I think that when women are the primary breadwinners in
society, this spells doom for the long-term health and welfare of society…of
civilization itself. It’s particularly damning for women who prefer marriage
and long-term, tightly committed, monogamous heterosexual relationships.</span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Currently, women are
taught to think that they are like Atlas—that they can be all things. But we
are not. At some point things are going to give; Atlas’ arms are going to weaken
and break off. </span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"><b>Women cannot continually be assigned every single job in
society while their counterparts—males within their age cohort—sit back and spend
their most valuable, youthful years playing video games, watching videos,
eating fast food and living off the estate (i.e. their parents or grandparents).
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Women are doled out almost every conceivable task in modern society
and take it on fully—from careers to raising children, to running entire
households to cooking, cleaning, hobbies and extra side ventures. On top of all
this, very many are taking night classes to improve their educational outlook.
Women everywhere seem to be juggling it all. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">However, there is one
thing that the vast majority of women want more than anything.<span style="margin: 0px;"> </span>I</b>n the end, even more than a successful
career, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">women really do want a man.</b>
They want a committed partner…a marriageable mate…a long-term, monogamous relationship
with a man. Yet, by the time women are ready for that kind of a relationship—they’ve
achieved the education and career that they’ve so diligently sought after, they
discover that it’s too late. This is because the men within their sphere of influence
and the men they find desirable—even the men they find with the minimum level
of decency for their standards—have already either married and partnered off. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The few single men available are inmates, only
interested in short-term flings or have gone down the irrevocable path of bachelorhood.
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">These days, things are
very difficult for women who will have an 80+ year life span.</b> But, unlike
what you hear shouted from all corners of Western society and in every social
media post, it’s not because women are being oppressed or denied opportunities
or unable to participate in politics.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Just
ask your typical woman in society why she has so much anxiety, why she is so
depressed…why she is so unhappy and she will inevitably respond with something
about her current relationship—something to do with a man (or lack thereof). </b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">No matter what anyone would like to tell you or what people
would like to hear, clearly heterosexual women are very wrapped up, entangled and affected
by the men around them and the relationships they do (or do not) have with them.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">But women have, unbeknownst to them, contributed to the problems they are now facing in society.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">I think that the
mating pattern and the entire unfolding of (Western) society has been going in
a deleterious, almost dysgenic direction.</b> It’s hard to pin-point when,
exactly, when this transgression began. Perhaps women have become desperate and
are lowering their standards—willing to mate with men in hopes of future
commitment. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;">As a result, women in Western society have been gradually
intermixing their genes with unfit men. (This is not to suggest that women in
society are necessarily “better” than the men within their cohort).<span style="margin: 0px;"> </span><b>It’s just that for mating purposes, it is the
female species who must be the choosy one. For it is the female who chooses
whom she will mate with---if anyone at all.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;">Thus, it is absolutely necessary for women to find the
fittest mate for the welfare of her future offspring and the welfare of future
society. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">And, by "fittest" here, we mean a
mate who has attributes that would foment the survival of her children—a mate
who has strong protector and provider qualities; a monogamous mate whom she can
count on for provision in both times of hardship and health. A polygamous man
will have many offspring and not be able to devote the amount of resources,
time and care to her children that a monogamous man could.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">How else can a female raise her offspring without such a
(monogamous) partnership? Society may currently pretend like this is feasible.
But it is only feasible with the help of the ultimate sugar daddy, The State—and
all its financial goodies. While a single mother can still work and have her
career, she will undoubtedly be assisted by the State with the survival of her
children. She will get numerous entitlements like housing, food, cash,
healthcare, and even daycare…even reduced student lunches if her children
attend public schools. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;">If (and when) the father has abandoned her, she will have The
State to look after her children—and, by necessary extension, herself. She won’t
have to give up her educational pursuits or her career either—the things that
modern women desire more than anything else. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The State, in essence, will allow her to have her cake and eat it too.
Of course, this is in exchange for her vote—her allegiance to the State. The State
gains more and more power by this set-up while the individuals in society lose their
liberty.</b></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">But I believe that
teaching women to depend on the State instead of on another person/partner will
have harmful consequences for the future of society. This is what is happening
here. The State, in effect, teaches women that they need not be extremely picky
with whom they mate with, because they know that they have a back-up, (The powerful State, of course). They know that with the help of The State they will indeed be able to
juggle single Motherhood, their career and even their education.</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: large;">For the long-term welfare of society—even the survival of
human society, itself, women must be taught to be extremely choosy in the mate
selection process.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> Promulgating genes
from men who are mentally unstable, uncommitted, dull, or who live out their
lives in apathy and stupor is to promote dysgenics in society.</b></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Remember, society in
aggregate will end up being a reflection of the genes that it has to work with—the
genes that are being expressed. </span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">If society should have
any “goals” at all, dysgenics should probably not be one of them.</span></b></div>
<b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike><span style="font-family: "calibri";"></span><span style="font-size: large;"></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-27731054520143016702018-07-31T07:54:00.000-07:002018-07-31T08:03:26.138-07:00My Dad Sent a Sin/Salvation article... my thoughts<div style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: transparent; color: #3d596d; font-family: &quot; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">
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Now onto more serious concerns...</div>
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It was a few weeks ago that my Dad sent me this link in my email entitled,<strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"> <a href="https://thecripplegate.com/differences-between-salvation-of-the-quran-the-bible/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+TheCripplegate+%28The+Cripplegate%29">Differences between Salvation in the Qur'an and the Bible<span style="color: #000010;">.</span></a></strong></div>
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Not sure if he thought I was delving into Islam (why would I have any interest)? Or, if he thought it had some theological punches about sin and salvation that showed Christianity's superiority to other religious viewpoints. Either way I skimmed the article and these were the tangential thoughts that came in the middle of the night...when I was nursing my baby...when I could literally speak the words into my blog and not have to type a word. These are the rare occasions where I can concentrate on "deeper" topics.</div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">A big issue with Christianity is it's focus on humans beings as sinful, evil, and not good enough. This is a similar behavior in some relationships.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;"><b>It's like the awful boyfriend who tells his girlfriend, </b>"You are nothing without me, be thankful to be with me because I love you despite your faults--what you lack--<strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">your "good actions" and "good qualities" are essentially worthless to me but I will take care of you anyway.</strong> </span><br />
<span style="color: #000010;">You are lucky to be with me and remember, it's "through me" that you gain your worth and value anyways. <strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Actually, without me nobody will want you and you will be ALONE/SINGLE FOREVER!."</strong></span><br />
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<span style="color: #000010;"><strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"> </strong>Just make a few substitutions here and you have the God of the Bible, telling you that without him, you will burn (alone) forever.</span><span style="color: #000010;"><b>Do you recognize this? Many young women today have boyfriends who treat them with this exact pattern of behavior- but the irony is that the God of the Bible appears to act (and think) in the exact same way.</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">This is not a healthy or productive behavior but it appears to be a common theme of manipulative, sociopathic individuals throughout the course of our history. <strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">When you see the above pattern of behavior displayed by any supposed deity or person, take pause, it's probably coming from the mind of a psychopath and usually a male</strong> (females have much lower rates of psycopathy throughout the course of human history).</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">The behavior described above reminds me of how masters treat their slaves or how captives treat their victims. It's called "Stockholm syndrome."</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">Now back to "sin". It's certainly reasonable to think that humans are imperfect.<b> But we do not need a devil or deity or an afterlife to tell us this.</b> I don't think anyone has ever suggested that they were <i style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">perfect</i>.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">We are goverrned by both virtues and vices and we have a limited and fallible brain. <strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">We often do behave in ways that indulge the less virtuous side of our nature.</strong> <strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">We take short cuts at the expense of future well-being. In many cases we take the self absorbent path and do not defer gratification so we act out in what are called "sins" such as rage, lust, violence, impoliteness, dishonesty, debt, selfishness, overeating (because it feels better in the moment).</strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">I tend to see "sin" not as some offense to a mystical being (that we have no physical way of testing the existence of and thus proving it's existence)-- but rather as <b>David Brooks eloquently states in his secular book, "The Road to Character".</b> <b>This is the most reasonable look at what can be considered "sin" that I've ever encountered yet.</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">Regarding sin he States the following:</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;"><b>"Sin is a necessary piece of our mental furniture because it reminds us that life is a moral affair. No matter how hard we try to reduce everything to deterministic brain chemistry, no matter how hard we try to reduce behavior to the set of herd instinct that is captured in big data, no matter how hard we strive to replace sin with nonmoral words like "mistake" or "error" or "weakness, the most essential parts of life are matters of individual responsibility ad moral choice: whether to be brave or cowardly, honest or deceitful, compassionate or callous, faithful or disloyal."</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">and here:</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;"><b>"We really do have dappled souls. The same ambition that drives us to build a new company also drives us to be materialistic and to exploit. The same lust that lead to children, leads to adultery. The same confidence that can lead to daring and creativity can lead to self worship and arrogance."</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;"> </span><span style="color: #000010;">and here:</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">"<b>Sin is not some demonic thing. It's just our perverse tendency to fuck things up, to favor the short term over the long term, the lower over the higher. Sin, when it is committed over and over again hardens to loyalty to a lower love. The danger with sin, in other words, is that it feeds on itself. Small moral compromises on Monday make you more likely to commit even bigger moral compromises on Tuesday. A person lies to himself and can no longer distinguish when he is lying to himself and when he isn't."</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">and here:</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000016;"><b>"A person is consumed by the sin of self-pity, a passion to be righteous victim that devours everything around it as surely as anger and greed. People rarely commit big sins out of the blue. They walk through a series of doors. They have an unchecked problem with anger. They have an unchecked problem with drinking or drugs.</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000016;"><b>"The final reason sin is a necessary part of our mental furniture is that without it, the whole method of character building dissolves. From time immemorial, people have achieved glory by achieving great external things, but they have built character by struggling against their internal sins. People become solid, stable and worthy of self-respect because they have defeated or at least struggled with their demons. If you take away the concept of sin, you take away the thing that the good person struggles against."</b></span></div>
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and here...</div>
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<b>"Our days are filled with moral occasions."</b></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;"> </span><span style="color: #000010;">Many Christians will jump in at this point once hearing these quotes and emphasize that "sin" is ultimately our nature that "goes against God". <strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Thus, according to the Christian, sin is more a corruption of our own nature that goes against "God himself"-- it isn't simply a list of our misdeeds and misbehaviors. Rather, these misdeeds and misbehaviors reflect our being's fallen state with relation to the divine, perfect being--God.</strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">Now, I want you to recognize that the Christian understanding of sin goes against the common, everyday understanding of "sin" held by the average person who isn't concerned with theology or philosophy.</span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="color: #000010;">People think of "their sin" in relationship to others-- to other HUMANS WHO PHYSICALLY EXIST. How did I betray my friend? Did I act selfishly to my husband the other day? Did I treat the checker at the grocery store rudely? Could I have driven less aggressively? Should I have given that homeless man some cash? Am I coming across as arrogant? Should I have spent less time on the internet and more time playing with my children? Should I have been more generous with my time...compliments...or knowledge to others?</span></strong></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">And this is what makes sense, what is the most salient for us to understand. We only need to live in a society-- among OTHER PEOPLE to come to the realization that our behavior is going to have an effect on not just ourselves, but others. There are clearly certain behaviors that are going to help society and others that are less helpful, or even hurtful.</span><span style="color: #000010;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>The Christian View of Sin and humans:</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">The Christian view of sin is that you as a human are so wretched and lowly that the only worth you have is in Christ/God. In fact, anything good you do isn't even valued or taken into the equation. Its worthless---you're worthless.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;"><strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">This is not a healthy mindset for any human to have.</strong> It is not a recipe for personal responsibility-- but rather a recipe for thinking that your life is shuffled by the hands of a force outside yourself-- until problems and mistakes arise and guess who gets the blame!? You do!</span></div>
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<span style="color: #000010;">In other words, you get the full blame for the misdeeds and "sins" you commit, but you do not get to take any of the responsibility or pride for the good that you do-- because remember, it's not <strong style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><em style="line-height: 19.2px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">your</em> works</strong> that get you into heaven (as lambasted incessantly by Christian Protestants).</span><br />
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<span style="color: #000010;">It doesn't matter if the concepts of sin and/or salvation are different between Christianity and Islam. We <i>still </i>need to examine the theology/philosophy behind these religious doctrines and see if they work...if they actually make sense in the world we interact with.</span><br />
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<b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike><span style="color: #000010;"></span><br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-14689324840426801542018-07-26T23:54:00.001-07:002018-07-26T23:59:19.015-07:00To my Fundamentalist Parents<br />
I wish you could understand me. I wish we could connect and really relate. After all, the word "relationship" has the very word "relate" in it.<br />
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But the truth is, this will never happen the way I would like. I do understand you...but you will never understand me.<br />
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Your religion....your religious delusions about so many things will hinder you from truly understanding me. After all, these delusions of yours are used to define me-- to determine who I am, and, more specifically, <i>why I am the way I am.</i><br />
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You allow a largely fallacious set of views to characterize me-- even before asking me about anything.<br />
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When you allow an ancient book (and your preferred interpretations of it) the ability to determine everything around you-- why everything is the way it is and why people behave the way they do, you are bound to get a very distorted view of the world and the people in it.<br />
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The Christian religion isn't very different from other religions in as much as it has built upon assumptions about a number of things. One of thoes things is the "Inerancy of Scripture". There is this assumption that the Bible is free of errors and that it is divinely written and inspired and so it is the source that a Christian goes to in order to determine all things. If the Bible says something about science, then, it is that account that is taken as authoritative and true, even if it happens to go against a natural/scientific account.<br />
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The Bible does not say anything specific about the natural world but it does seem to say plenty of specific things about the "spiritual realm"--claims that conveniently can't be tested or falsified in the first place--because, after all, these are things that are<i> not part of this world.</i> They are <i>beyond</i> this world. <b>How nicely convenient to be able to escape the necessity of providing rational thought and arguments for such beliefs.</b><br />
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<b>I love you but I often feel sad about our relationship.</b> I see so many other parent-child relationships where the parents are just happy to be with their children and share a relationship with them--not incessantly longing for their children to be converts to their particular ideology. Not constantly worried that their children will end up in hell. I know these thoughts are on your minds at all times. People that you know have conducted themselves in this life FAR WORSE than the average person but are guaranteed a spot in heaven, simply because they expressed faith--while I, your disbelieving daughter, will likely go to hell.<br />
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<b>When I asked you the other night if the Jews would be in the same place as their killer, Hitler--in Hell, right?</b> You made reservations for them. You didn't seem to let this make you feel uneasy about the theology you uphold. Y<b>ou were able to suggest that "Well we don't know everything about God and his plan. We know so little.". </b>You can use that same logic for me then. You can rest assured that I won't be going to hell no matter what I think or believe.<br />
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<b> Loreen thinks the same way. </b>We met for coffee a few days ago and during a pause in our conversation she said, "Renee, I'd like to get serious with you. You probably know where I'm going with this already....but I'm concerned about you. I'm concerned about your kids. I think about you a lot and how you've lost your faith...I think about how it must hurt your family...your parents! Your parents must be so worried for you. You know there is a heaven and a hell and there's a God."<br />
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Hearing her admonishment didn't bother me for one second. I didn't feel uneasy or "spiritually bullied" because I've heard it before and I really do understand how Christians think (because I once thought the exact same way!). Because of this, I can have empathy for Christians and their response to me. They mean well but it does get tiresome to deal with people inside a box--who have no capacity to see beyond it. Now that I've stepped out, I can see beyond the box...I can still though, understand exactly how they think.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-34687178193358844822018-03-29T22:24:00.000-07:002018-03-29T22:24:11.701-07:00Pagan party and Easter EGG Cake I made<br />
Here is a cake I made to bring in springtime with my children--and a little party :)<br /><a href="https://asliceofmytravelstrashandtoddlers.net/2018/03/30/my-robins-easter-egg-cake-welcome-spring-pagan-party-for-kids-plus-spring-crafts/">My Pagan Party for kids???</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-21530085317613901462018-03-27T18:35:00.002-07:002018-03-27T18:35:08.109-07:00MY LUNCH TIME! Check out my other blog :)<br />
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Hi Everyone! I'm eating lunch. This is all I have time for today. :) Link here:<br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"><b>Creative and Fun ways to increase your Carbon Footprint BY
Me:</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">There are lots of people in the world who clearly care about
the environment based on how they vote and who they would like to tax on the
planet. But what if you aren’t one of those people? </span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">What if you actually hate the globe and don’t care about the climate?</span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Voting is one thing…but
what about actually taking action…doing something about your "proposed cause"?
Anyone can pat themselves on the back and say they voted “pro environment” or “anti
environment”—but what actions are you taking in your day-to-day life to prove
that you actually care, one way or another? </span><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"> </span></span><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">As climate scientists make us think, it’s the little things
that add up. “It’s just a fraction of a degree that is needed to increase
global temperatures and change the delicate balance in nature”—so what small
things are you doing, on a daily basis, to help increase global warming? After all, you hate the environment right?</span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";">1.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Eat mostly packaged/boxed and processed food
items instead of fruits and vegetables with biodegradable peelings. You want to
have a lot of non-biodegradable plastic trash to be throwing out in your
garbage can or recycle bin.</span></div>
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transportation, insist on driving or getting a cab, even if only 6 blocks
down the road.</span></div>
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your local Walmart looking for the parking space that is close to the entrance.
Don’t give up. If you have to circle the lot a few dozen times or idle your car
for 10 minutes as you wait for someone to leave, give yourself a pat on the
back. </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">You don’t want to be one of those
people who finds the first parking space in the back of the lot and immediately
turns off your car engine. You’ll be forced to walk a few extra feet </span></b></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">4.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Refuse to carpool</span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">5.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Go to a fast-food restaurant at least once a
week—smile to yourself as you throw all of the plastic trash and wrappings into
the rubbish bin. Give yourself bonus points if your meal had meat in it.</span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">6.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Order delivery at least once a month. Smile as
you consider how much gas is being used to ferry your little plastic take-out-bag
and Styrofoam container from the restaurant to your house and then back again.
Throw away half of the food you ordered because “You were full” and too lazy to
put it back in the fridge.</span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">7.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Never eat left-overs from your fridge or
anything that you have “on hand, in your house”. Why do this when you can
simply order something and have someone else use a bunch of gas and
plastic/garbage package to get it to you?</span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">8.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Don’t grow any plants or vegetables. Don’t eat
plants. Eat lots of meat because animals create more carbon emissions that
plants do.</span></div>
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bags. Use plastic bags from the store which you will throw away and “recycle”
when done. </span><br />
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<span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">10.</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: large; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Constantly buy new things: new clothing, new
devices, new toys for the kids: avoid shopping at any “used clothing store” or “thrift
store”. You only want things that have been newly created in China or other
far-off regions and then recently shipped to America.</span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Set your air conditioning down to 58 degrees F.</span></div>
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be emitting lots of carbon from burning your gasoline while you wait for your
food to be given to you in lots of throw-away packaging. </span><span style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Smile to yourself as you see how many people
are waiting in the long fast-food drive through lane, doing the same thing as
you are. Together you’re making a difference!!</span></div>
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Reassure yourself that “they were cheap anyways, so why bother taking care of
them?” Tell yourself, "I'm just a renter so why should I take care of someone else's property?" The more things and places you trash, the more time you can spend driving around looking for new things and places and consuming more things.</span></div>
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</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri"; font-size: large;">Keep your house so messy that you always lose
your things and have to “buy new ones”. Remember, that’s more trips to and from
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">Things to stave off depression in a pinch:</span></b></div>
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help pull me out of negative, depressed states.</div>
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<li class="MsoNormal">First
and foremost, just get up. Walk around the house. Start exercising
vigorously if possible. I’ve found that exercise/movement is the best
strategy to get out of the cycle of depression and anxiety. In my
interactions with people, I’ve found those who spend more time sitting
each day are more likely to be depressed than those who spend less time
sitting.</li>
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<li class="MsoNormal">Write,
write, write. Write down all of your painful thoughts and purge out the
depression like a juicer squeezes out the juice from a fleshy fruit. </li>
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<li class="MsoNormal">Do not
eat. And, most certainly refrain from eating sugary foods. These clog up
my brain and make me feel worse. I used to think this was some sort of
pop-psychology crap that everyone repeats, “Avoid sweets if depressed”.
This is actually true for me. If you eat less you will also feel
better…freer. It’s weird, but it works. It’s liberating to feel like you’ve
lost a pound or two.</li>
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<li class="MsoNormal">Avoid
people. I used to say “Avoid mean people” or “Avoid critical people” or
“Avoid other depressed people”. Now I just say “avoid people” (if
possible). People often stir up more anger and depression because they
inevitably say something that makes you “Overthink what they said or felt”.
Think about it. Almost every time you’ve ever felt a twinge of anxiety or
a negative state—you can trace it back to someone else—to what someone
else said or did. <b>Also, when depressed you will tend to
interpret most of what other people say from a negative or condescending
standpoint anyways.</b> Your brain
will make you think the worst about yourself. Close down comments. Don’t
read things on social media. Get off facebook. Feel free and vent and express
yourself online. <b>Employ your
freedom of speech but realize you can control your own platforms online as
other people can express themselves online and control their own platforms
too. You are not forced to go to their websites/social media pages and
they are not forced to go to yours. If you’re not some big celebrity
online and not asking for money—you do not owe anything to anyone. Period.<o:p></o:p></b></li>
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exercise your willpower. Strengthen your resolve for whatever tempts you.
You may have a piece of cake in front of you and you’re hungry. The
temptation will be to eat it so that your reward center is momentarily
delighted. Exercise resistance and delay your desire for instant
gratification. You will build up an internal feeling of strength that can
grow with more attempts like these.</li>
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to charity. Help someone else out. I
volunteer.</li>
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out into nature—surround yourself with the glories of the natural world.</li>
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on your family. These are the most important people in your life!</li>
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TRUMP….PLEASE READ THIS!!<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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My baby looking out the window at our hotel in Tokyo! 35th floor.</div>
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<b>As I write these
words I am on a plane, flying over Russia.</b> My husband, baby and I just had
a trip of a life-time. We went to Japan.
Now we are headed back to Europe.</div>
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It is just days before the big United-States election. This past year has been an intense
roller-coaster ride for everyone on planet earth—especially Americans. If there
is one fact that I can make about this election and about the status of
America, <b>it would be that America and
Americans are MORE DIVIDED than ever before. </b>Everything from racial and
cultural divisions to ideological, religious and political tensions are
increasingly rife among Americans. This is undeniable—(unless you are one to
maintain a homogenous group of friends and intolerant to diverse political
views.) I reflect upon my conversations
with people, to watching videos on YouTube to scrolling through my facebook
feed, talking to people in other countries and on airplanes, people disagree
with each other! There is a branching between two (maybe three) camps.</div>
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<b>I believe Donald
Trump is going to win this election.</b> I’ve thought this since the beginning
of the election but I wanted to make my formal declaration now, before the election.
I’ve actually thought this from the very beginning when there was a truckload
of Republicans running for the nominee. I knew that Trump would win the
nominee. I even had a big argument with one of my more liberal Christian female
friends. <b>We made a bet. We both agreed
(back in August 2015) that Clinton would be the Democratic nominee but she
thought Marco Rubio would be the Republican nominee and I said it was going to
be Donald Trump. </b>She and her sister both mocked me for my prediction. I
further suggested that trump would be the next US president. I have not
retreated from my initial position. </div>
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<b>I think Trump will
win this election.</b> The American populace is looking for a change. We are
looking for improvement in the political sphere but also in the economic one.
More and more Americans are out of work. If Trump can be trusted, it appears
that he wants to improve the job situation for Americans. <b>He has also taken a strong stance on immigration—something that hasn’t
been discussed very much from US presidential candidates for a long time. <o:p></o:p></b></div>
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Trump has suggested that immigration is a big issue for
America and that it impacts Americans—especially American citizens who are part
of the poor and middle class<b>. The reason
why so many people want to move to America in the first place is <i>precisely because</i> of the comparatively
better job/career/education opportunities than in their own countries. However,
in the past decade, jobs and working opportunities are harder and harder to
find, even for American citizens.</b> More and more millennials are living with
their parents well into their 20’s and even 30’s. Something is going wrong
here.</div>
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<b>To claim that current immigration patterns have no net effects on
American citizens—when jobs and resources are in finite supply—needs to be
proven.</b> <b>The one making the claim
needs to offer the evidence for the claim.<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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After recently spending some time in Japan, I am amazed at
how pro-Japanese it is. <b>I wouldn’t call
this country “racist” or “xenophobic”—I would simply call it “Pro-Japanese”. </b>Japan
is a rich, successful, organized country. I told my husband that in the rank of
countries, I would call it “superior” to America on several fronts—<b>its low crime rate being a major one.</b> Our tour guides informed us that Japan is very
difficult to immigrate to; <b>it allowed 11
immigrants entry last year. Is Japan
xenophobic? Use whatever words you want to suit your biases (because we are all
biased) but I’m going to stick with “Pro-Japanese”. <o:p></o:p></b></div>
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Trump has touched upon a similar notion in America. <b>I don’t think Trump’s immigration policy
will be anywhere as extreme as Japan’s but it could be an improvement to what
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<b>America DOES need to
be more selective in its immigration and travel policies. </b>I still have
vivid memories of being unable to enter Nigeria because I didn’t have the
proper documentation. The guards at the border of Benin/Nigeria would not allow
me entry—without a smidgeon of hesitation they sent me back to Cotonou, Benin
while my travel party made their way to Lagos. <b>Were the Nigerian guards just racist…because I was White? Well, I guess
that is a possibility.</b> After all, I was the white person and Nigeria is
full of Africans. The other possibility is that they were just following the
laws of their country and they weren’t acting upon racist impulses. I will let
you be the judge.</div>
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<b>Trump has tapped into
a line of thinking that has been suppressed in the collective American
subconscious for decades: Isn’t it Americans citizens, in aggregate, who should
be the priority of the American government?</b> Why should we vote for officials
who institute polices that give recent immigrants from Third World countries the
benefits of affirmative action <b>(in both
employment and education opportunities) </b>over American natives whose
parents, grandparents, great grandparents, great great grandparents have been
paying taxes into the system? We need a system that works for American
citizens—not for American elites who use a globalist system to stay in power at
the expense of the rest of us.</div>
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Trump is no where near perfect but he will be an improvement
to the system that currently exists. Don’t get me wrong. Trump SHOULD BE
PRO-IMMIGRANT (of any ethnic background), provided they bring job opportunities
to American citizens and benefit America. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-5329895514952591872016-09-23T04:23:00.000-07:002016-09-23T04:27:07.872-07:00SJW's "Racist/Sexist" is like Fundamentalist's "Heretic"!!!<div class="MsoNormal">
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One of the things that I noticed about fundamentalist
Christians was how quickly they wanted to curtail the conversation when you
brought up <b>facts or statistics</b> that
would disprove their narrative of the world. <b>You could bring up statistics about the lower rate of atheists in
prison compared to the general population</b> and this seemed to have no
bearing on their belief system. Those I spent time with did not want to hear
about these <b>“satanic” statistics. </b></div>
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<b>(When I was initially venturing towards unbelief, I noticed how atheists would endlessly remind me of statistics. They would use statistics to back up some of their viewpoints. (They would mention how there is a lower rate of atheists in prison compared to the general population). Atheists made no hesitation to discuss statistical differences between two different groups (Atheists vs Theists).... Anyways,...I digress.<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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Whenever I would bring up facts or statistics to certain fundamentalist Christians, these individuals would hurl terms like “<b>infidel”</b>, “<b>Unbeliever</b>” or “<b>Heretic</b>”
at me. This would stifle the progress of the discussion—it would stop the
conversation. Then they would say, <b>“You
know you’re just being a (heretic”</b> or “<b>You
know you just hate Christians”</b>. This was a clever strategy to employ so
that certain things about their religion would not be discussed or exposed. <b>It was a convenient tool so that facts
could not be discussed or heard and other possible explanations for events
would not be evaluated. <o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b>Since being around
this kind of mentality, I am able to notice it in other situations as well.</b>
In fact, I observe how people use it in so many other belief systems or
narratives that they hold dearly <b>and do
not want to be evaluated</b>. They will
then throw pejorative terms like “racist” “infidel” “hate monger” “heretic”
“bigot” or “sexist” at you—not because you actually are any of these things,
but because THEY FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE discussing facts, statistics, science,
history and they do not want to consider the possible implications that come
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end of his life, they would rather change the subject or deny the exploration
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Drinking Coffee In Europe, my thoughts on food and drink<br />
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My husband was teaching her this earlier in the day and she was able to say it with a little encouragement.<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-50653683716187129402016-03-20T07:53:00.001-07:002016-03-20T08:10:59.264-07:00I have GOOD NEWS and BAD NEWS for Christian Proselytizers<br />
My parents keep on trying to push Christianity on me. They
do this in the way of sending me Christian pamphlets, tracts, non-stop Bible
verse text messages, trying to coax me over the phone with Christian apologetic
rhetoric, links to William Lane Craig videos, videos made by Ray Comfort and
recently, providing me with a large stack of Christian baby books for my 4 ½ month
old.<br />
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<b>After about the 500<sup>th</sup> time of dealing with these kinds
of issues I finally told my Mom over the phone, “I have something really
important to tell you”. I said, “I have good news and I have bad news.</b> <b>How about
I start with the bad news? The bad news
is that I will probably never reconvert to Christianity again. I’ve been
officially vaccinated from this strain of thinking.”</b></div>
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<b>“What’s the good news?” my Mother asked, quizzically.</b> I
paused and thought about it for a moment, “I probably won’t become a Mormon or
a Scientologist either.”Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-86446261815119717902016-03-17T05:25:00.000-07:002016-03-17T06:08:39.532-07:00Smart People MOST Privileged? BRAINS, INTELLIGENCE, IQ THOUGHTS>>><div class="MsoNormal">
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I have been thinking a lot about IQ lately. Just as there
are differences in the memory and processing speeds of computers, the same can
be said about human brains. <b>The more I
think about it, the more I firmly believe that all of the major differences we
observe in the human population are tethered back to the brains involved.</b>
This may sound overly simplistic, but the reason why some people generally get
ahead in life or are greeted with more respect or make more money is due to the
capacity of their brain. <b>Everything
comes back to the brains involved.</b> Even social behavior and acting in a
socially desirable fashion is linked to IQ. There are exceptions to this rule,
but I like to focus on generalities because they are much more predictable.</div>
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Smart people can find clever, ingenious strategies to secure
and grow wealth. Smart people are more likely to invent things or design companies/businesses
that provide in-demand products and services. Individuals with higher IQ’s are
more likely to become mathematicians, engineers, physicists and doctors—professions
that involve subject matter that is exhaustive, complex, and endlessly
changing. These individuals’ minds can handle such operations while people with
lower IQ’s are more suited for simple jobs, like being a cashier or a janitor.
This said, individuals with average or lower IQ’s can use their creativity to
produce art, write books or create businesses that might also be just as
financially rewarding.</div>
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Another thing about smart individuals is that they are more
likely to defer gratification to a later date. Instead of grab the small reward
now (E.G. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_marshmallow_experiment">Marshmallow Test</a>), they are willing to wait for the bigger reward
later. We can see this with doctors. It takes years, at the very least 12-13
just to become a doctor. Many doctors may have the temptation to quit anywhere
along the line of pre-med, medical school, a taxing residency and fellowship to
get a more easily achievable job offering them money right now. A doctor not
only had to be innately smart to comprehend and use an incredible amount of knowledge,
but he/she had to also defer their gratification as they made their way down
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<b> Unfortunately, smart individuals are scarce in
our world but this is precisely what makes their value go up. This is
especially true in a “free market” or “freer market” society—compared to those societies that are less so. These smart folks can
demand more for their time.</b> We, as a society, value areas of expertise (or
products, created with such expertise and innate intelligence) <b>because we all
benefit.</b></div>
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<b>Smart people are more ready and
able to efficiently unlock the mysteries of the world, unveiling useful
knowledge to the rest of us. Everyone benefits.</b> Intelligent people provide
immense value to a technologically advancing population. They figure things out
more quickly and they can then offer their products or services on the market
more cheaply than an individual who wasn’t as smart in the creation of their
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Another way I like to think about intelligence is like this:
If you have a better computer you have access to more information (either
stored on your computer’s hard drive or on the internet) more quickly. This
becomes increasingly important in a technologically advanced society—one where
the speed and accuracy of information acquisition is crucial.</div>
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processing speed is going to be crucial in a technologically advanced society. <b>Why is a brain with a higher IQ so much
better you ask? It is better on a fundamental level because so much more can be
done with it.</b> <b>The reason why Galileo and Newton discovered arcane properties of the
universe was precisely because of the superior properties of their brains (at
least compared to other contemporary brains that surrounded them).</b> We revel
in their accomplishments—these leaps of understanding they brought to human
civilization. Really though, we must consider the kinds of unique brains they
were beholden with in order to tap into the wonders of the cosmos ourselves. </div>
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Future technologies may be based on the underlying circuitry
of “intelligent brains” and offer this asset to all of us. Products and
services will be designed to assist with “mental enhancement”. <b>I look forward to a bright future with
increased time to enjoy life.</b> The only way this is going to happen is if we
continue forward with a society that pushes and motivates as MANY bright
individuals AS POSSIBLE to contribute their skills and innovations and rewards them abundantly for doing so.</div>
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A couple weeks ago I was trying to teach my (then) 3 1/2 month old how to say "Hi"</div>
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The biggest, most significant thing I’ve learned since
having a baby is the value of time. Time is an extremely important resource.
I’ve always recognized this—just so much more now. For brief moments during the
day I will check my facebook or learn something online; and this is only
because I am lucky enough to have a readily accessible I-Phone at my
fingertips.</div>
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What I specifically miss most about my pre-child existence
was having the time to learn and write. Sure—I was still busy with tons of
housework, volunteering at the hospital, yard work and travelling with my
husband—and being terribly, terribly nauseas from the pregnancy—but I had MORE
TIME. I found myself researching things on the internet, reading, indulging in
knowledge…attempting to learn. I guess I never realized what a privilege and
luxury it is to have time to learn or sharpen my creative skills. I never
thought about the fact that my own Mother had to forego her intellect and (ANY)
novel learning activities because she was so busy trying to maintain a
household, constantly cleaning up after us, raising us three children—and we
were all roughly a year and a half apart. She recently told me that there was a
span of about 3 years in the 1980’s where she received less than 2 hours of
sleep each night.</div>
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As far as not having enough time…the irony is that I now
feel like my mind is flooded with great ideas—but at all the wrong moments. I
have ideas just spontaneously pierce my consciousness and I think “I need to go
and write that idea down so that I can address it in the future” but I almost
never have time to even write down the reminder. </div>
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I guess I didn’t realize how tough it can be for
stay-at-home Moms. I see why women are joining the work-force in mass and
dropping their children off at day care, paying someone $12 an hour to raise
their children. This is so much easier than having to constantly change diapers
and do laundry and deal with vomit all over your clothing—you feel more like a
janitor without even the benefits of the pay. These career women even get to
maintain their ego—“I have a respectable career <i>and </i>I have a baby!” </div>
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My Mom was a stay-at-home Mom. I see why she wasn’t really able to spend time
learning and reading—there is no time to pursue such luxurious, exciting things
as knowledge—every second, every fracking moment you are attending to the needs
of someone else.</div>
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So much of my day is involved in menial tasks that are often
repeated several times each hour and the laundry piles up. There are endless
diapers and gushes of spit-up all over my clothes and the baby cries a lot too.
There is a lot to be thankful for too.</div>
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I am so happy and lucky to have such a healthy and sweet
baby. She is wonderful! We love her so much!</div>
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I really hope I can get a video epilogueAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-67615902427670851162016-01-29T03:24:00.000-08:002016-01-29T03:25:31.518-08:00Video: Having fun with My Baby, Video, Pics<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
These past few months have been CRAZY BUSY! My husband and I are so happy to have our healthy little baby :) I still have a lot of weight to lose but working on it slowly.</div>
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P.S. We have tons of trips already planned for this year: Sicily, Malta, Japan, New Orleans etc!</div>
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On behalf of those of us who suffer with <b>ANXIETY</b>, do you
know what is worse to us than the anxiety?—Being told to “<b>calm down</b>”, “<b>relax</b>”
or, my all time favorite, “<b>Take a deep breath</b>”.<br />
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I think this woman sums it up quite well in her blog post here <a href="http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-will-not-calm-down">http://www.xojane.com/relationships/i-will-not-calm-down</a>-at least in terms of how it effects her when people want to quash her excitability.<br />
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<b>My own Thoughts....</b></div>
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<b> if you’re interested
in trolling someone who has anxiety</b>, or, you simply get your spikes of dopamine
via sociopathic maneuvers, by all means, go ahead and tell an already-anxious
individual to simply “Take a deep breath”.
Problem solved. People with anxiety have never once thought of these
suggestions on their own and I’m sure they would appreciate hearing your clever
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When interacting with someone who appears funny, “off”,
nervous or jittery—or any behavior that isn’t an exact representation of your
own behavior, it is always a good idea to point this out to said individual in
a public setting and start lecturing. This will put your anxious friend at
ease. <b>Make certain that everyone else is aware of this person’s deviant
behavior. The person who suffers with anxiety will no doubt feel reassured by
your caring, public gesture. </b>Now that more people are glaring at this person,
more people can offer their assistance and proceed to tell this person to
“relax” or “take a deep breath”. It always helps when more than 2-3 people tell
the anxious person the same thing. The more times they hear it, the more likely
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You could even step it up a notch and tell your anxious
friend, “Go find a corner, count to ten, and <i>then</i> take a deep breath.” People with anxiety always appreciate
knowing that you really care. And, even if you were being intentionally
patronizing, they would not be able to tell anyways. <i>Never.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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I’m only kidding, of course. People who suffer with anxiety
are not actually trying to bother you. I know it may seem like it, but they’re
not. <b>We do know, however, that our behavior is deeply infuriating to you. It isn’t, you say? Then why must you keep on
commanding us to “Take a deep breath”? It certainly isn’t solving our anxiety.
Let me tell you something—your antics are <i>worsening
</i>our anxiety, not helping it. We get that you’re a control freak and haven’t
expanded your social encounters to approve of those of us who violate what is
normal in even the slightest degree. We get it that you’re a Type A, standing
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We fully understand that we have our own idiosyncratic
personalities. Furthermore, many of us have done everything in our powers to
develop mindfulness; a self-aware stance so that we can behave in a manner that
puts others at ease. But apparently, after all of these years of
self-monitoring…of constant efforts to stay within the straight jacked of
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I’m here to finally say “Knock it Off”. If our composure,
mannerisms or the intensity in how we act or express ourselves makes you
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I have never once corrected anyone for how they “should”
compose themselves—in my entire life. I might argue with ideas or words that
are said, but I don’t make commentary on body language. I realize that how
people act and compose themselves is largely a product of their brains
chemistry and structure. While innate patterns of behavior can be altered and
improved upon, many of the individuals who have these patterns are already
fully aware that they have them and are making strenuous efforts to overcome
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<b>The next time someone
tells me to “Take a deep breath”, I’m going to tell them “Why don’t you take a
deep breath? Why don’t you go to the corner and count to ten?” After all,
you’re the one who appears to be affected by me enough to want to manage my
behavior and assert your control over me.</b> Next time I won’t even allow your
dictates to enter my consciousness and I will ask you “Is everything okay with
you? You don’t seem to have any kind of authority on “balance” or “mindfulness”
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Commanding someone to
“Take a Deep Breath” isn’t helpful. It is equivalent to telling someone to
“Calm Down!” or “Lower your Blood Pressure!” Telling someone to calm down has
never once helped someone calm down but has instead served to increase their
level of agitation. <b>In fact, if you
really want to stir up someone’s wrath, just tell them to “Calm down” or
“relax” when they are already in a vexed state. Just see what happens…</b>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13876754891701386069noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2949964747410221992.post-10692657702225216662015-12-01T01:09:00.000-08:002015-12-01T01:23:45.234-08:00A Common Theme Between Christianity and Buddhism...?<div class="MsoNormal">
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I find it interesting
that both <b>Buddhism</b> and <b>Christianity</b> have negative things to
say about the notion of “<b>desire</b>”.
According to Buddhist teaching, the idea of desire or “wanting” is a condition
of the mind that should be overcome and banished. <b>Desire</b> is an unbalanced state. It is the feeling of being
unfulfilled or “<b>needing something more</b>”.
It is from this mental state of desiring something that we experience
unhappiness, unsettling thoughts…anxiety. Desire is the root of all the
unhappiness that we experience. Nirvana is the condition where desire is
placated, pacified. Nirvana is the absence of desire. Nirvana is the state
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<b>“But each one is
tempted when, by his own DESIRE, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after
DESIRE has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and sin, when it is full grown
gives birth to death.” James 1:14<o:p></o:p></b><br />
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<b>Another verse comes to mind regarding this "losing of the self".</b><br />
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<b>"Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it."</b><br />
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So, according to Christianity, it is also <b>desire </b>that leads to sin, unhappiness…a
corrupt nature. Adam and Eve <b>desired</b>
the fruit in the Garden of Eden. They acted upon their <b>desire </b>and it led to their downfall. This led to the Fall of the
human race. <b>Heaven is like
Christianity’s Nirvana, where there is no more desire or sin and where those
who end up there feel complete--and we do this by losing the self for Jesus.<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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